Singtangmite’ Khandaal: Pornography

Mimal tampi kigawm in khotaang leh saptuam bawlkhia ahih ziakin, mimal tampite buaina pen khotaang leh saptuam buaina suak hi. Tulel a Khotaang leh Saptuam dinmun hoihlou leh sungmuat, seelvuallouh a hong kilangkhe pen thakhat thil thu hilou a, akum-akum a kikhol tou khaam ngellouh siatnate ziak hizaw hi. I tulel dinmun hon tuntu muhtheih leh muhtheihlouh thil tampi om hi. Muhtheihlouhte lak a khat ahih leh Numei-Pasal kikaal a thaangtatna (Sexual Immorality) ahi. Hiai numei-pasal kikaal a thaangtatna beisak zoh ding hikei mah leh, kiamsak hok zou le’ng, i gam a REVIVAL hong tun nadia thumpawlte panpih mahmah di’n ka gingta tinten hi.

Numei-Pasal kikaal a thaangtatna (sexual immorality) leh huchilam a paisualna leh huhamna (sexual perversion) uangsaktu ahih leh Pornography ahi hi. Hiai toh kisai ko’n gelh ziak ahihleh, genkhiak-ngamlouh, genkhiak-zumhuai leh genkhiak-kilawmlou a i koih ziak uh ahi. I iim ua, i genkhiak/gelhkhiak ngei louh ziak un, hiai thil-chiin hoihloutak, hon sungluh a hon nesia himahleh, a doudaalna dia panlaak ding daan omtheilou hizaw hi.

Pornography ichih chiang in, a simthoh hiam, lim hiam, video hiam a numei/pasal vuaktang a om hiam ahihkei leh numei-leh-pasal, numei-leh-numei, pasal-leh-pasal, taksalam a thaanghuaitaka kipolhna, taksapum-utna kisukbuchintuah sakna, mahni hiam mi hiam taksa-lam a kisukphurna leh a ente sukphur na ding a, et-theih ding a kibawl vanzatte ahi uhi.

Tulai in ahihleh pornography pen internet tungtawn in ki hah zat mahmah hi. Nidanglai daan a nawngkaitak a, Video Parlour hiam, inn a TV khat neih sunsun a, aguuk-agaal a hun remchang zong a laibu hiam, video casette hiam, CD/DVD hiam a Blue Film leh X-rated movie et chihte pen lar nawnlou hi. Internet haattak leh kimantak leh mahni mimal’ smartphone te ziak in, porn pen muh leh zat pha-ze leh baihsam petmah ta hi. A huchihziakin, a kizat daan leng uang mahmah ta hi. A ki hahzat luat ziak mahtakin, ngeina daan in ana paita a, mitampi te’n amau kisiamtanna di’n ‘miteng in a et uh eivele’ chi in, thil poi hetlou a suaksak ta uhi. Miteng in a hihte uh hih teitei di chihna zaw omlou hia maw? Poi law petmah!

Pornography hoihlouh dan leh apoidan chihte khong mipi lak a gen chi hi’n leng i koih kei ua, sawm leng I sawm hetkei uhi. Ahuchih pen lamdang lou hi, aziak ahih leh, porn en zen pi a en ngeilou/zongsanglou dan phet lou a, mi theih ding le utlou tampi om ahihziak un. Apoi mahmah chu, i genkhaiklouhziak ua, Singtangmi, Pathian Hing leh Siangthou bete’n PORN en-lou a, zongsang-lou kihi tuan lou hi. Khotang leh Saptuam aguuk a hon nesia ahihna ah, i genkhiak uh poimoh petmah ta hi. I genkhiak louh ziak mahtak in, a guuk in hon sungluh a, alangtang a hoih mahmah dan in kilang mahleh, aguuktak a hinkhua tampitak leh nupa-kaal nangawn porn ziak a buai a siat kholoh om tham hi. Saptuam hi’n Khotang hiltaleh, a doudaalna ding a panlakna ding sai chih a omlam ka theikha hetkei hi. Huaiziakin, tu a panlakna ding ngaihtuah ahih keileh, zekai sawnsawn lai ding a, bawltheih nawnlouh hun hong omkha thei hi.

Mimal, Innkuan, Saptuam leh Khotaang a buaina himhim a venna ding a panlaak theihdaan masapen leh poimohpen ahih leh, buaina pen a om chih a pom(accept) ahi hi. Tulel a Khotaang buaina, alangtang khenkhat; Zu leh Khamtheih zuak leh zatkhelhna (Selling and abuse of Alcohol and Drugs), guuktaak-laaktaat, neekguuk-taakguuk, sum-olsam zonna, pawlpi leh pawlneu buainate himah leh, a guuk a hon sungluh a hon nesete lak ah, Lungsimlam Damtheihna (Mental Health) gentellouh in, Pornography in dinmun thupitak len hi chih thei ni.

PORNOGRAPHY TOH KISAI A INDIA’ DINMUN:

Pornography a lunglut, khovelmite tam law petmah ahiziakin, sum crore tampi a sim muhna naak suak hi. Huaiziakin abawl leh athehdarhna a kipei a summetbawlna a zangkhate’n hauhsakna in zang ua, a sumnaak uh humbitna ding in hahkat petmah uhi.

Porn etna ah India in khovel pumpi ah athumna (third) mun luah zou hi. Kum 2018 a suichetna khat dungzui in, India a porn ente lak ah 30% numeite hi uh chih mukhia ahi. Porn hi’n porn lam toh kinai/kisai himhim lem chinna etna/zatna ahihleh March 2016 and March 2017 kikaal in 75% tak in ana kal zou hi. Reliance Jio in telecom a ahong dianglutna toh kiton a, data rate kimanchik a apiakkhiak ziak ahi chih muhkhiak in om hi. Huai akipatin Porn etna nasatak in India gam ah, adiak in khawtate (small towns) akipat hong uang mahmah hi. Lamka leh asehvel bang leng khawta hiven maw? Ei Singtangmi Khristiante’n bangzah percent thoh kha di’n agintaat huai nasa uh?

2013 kum in, Advocate Kamlesh Vaswani in Supreme Court ah pornography khaam bik-bek (Porn Ban) ding in ngetna(petition) ana khe ngei hi. Ama’ panna ahih leh, porn pen a lem chiin himahleh, hinkhua taktak ah mi hihse petmah a, sex lam a zulhzauna leh hiamgam leh thagum suah a tatsiatna uangsak petmah hi, chi hi. Vaswani in hiai petition ana khiak tungtawn in kum 2015 in Department of Telecom in Internet Service providers (Internet service pekhete) kiang ah porn website 827 khaam di’n theihsakna ana pia uhi. Himahleh, huai khaamna pen akisuahkhiak nung kar khat(1 week) leng pha lou in zukkik in ana om hi. Mipite leh Telecom Companyte hahkatna ziak in Naupang panna’ porn (child porn) chihlouhsiah teng a khaamna zukkik in ana om hi. India a online traffic hoihtaka apaina di’n porn website traffic in 70% thoh zou hi. Porn khaam a ahong om chiang in telecom operatorte business naktak a hihsiat banah mi tampite’ lunggulh leh chiin zongsat thakhat a suh a om ding ahihziak in, mipi leh telecom companyte pangkhawm in khaamna pen ana zukkiksak zou uh chihdaan ahi.

Ana huchi himah leh, October, 2018 in porn khaamna (Porn Ban) athakin Uttarakhand High Court thupiakna dungzui in hong kigen lang nawn hi. A hong kipat dan ahihleh, Dehrahdun a gang-rape case khat toh kisai in Uttarakhand High court ah ngaihkhiakna September, 2018 in ana om hi. Huai hun in, mi rape a kipuang te’n, a porn et uh leng ngohtel uhi. A huchih ziakin, 2015 a porn khaamna ding a theisakna ana kisuah pen phorhkhiak in hong om thak nawn hi. Huaimah pansan in a khaamna pen hihhing thak in hong omnawn hi.

Huai Court order in, Internet Service License neite kiang ah, dated 31st July, 2015 a theihsakna omsa pen mah athak a, khauhtak a ana zuita ding in, daan tungtawn in thupiak suah uhi. Huai theihsakna ahih leh, ‘Sex hi’n sex lam toh kisai thanghuaitak leh kilawmloutak a lemchinna, sex toh kizawitawn a zulhzauna leh huhamna himhim, leh naupang pankhakna himhim ettheih/zattheih ding a bawl a suahkhiak leh khakkhiak kham bik-bek ahi’, chih ahi.

Hiai toh kizawitawn in, India sorkar in Information Technology Act tungtawn in naupangte khualna leh humbitna di’n, daan khauhtak tungtawn in gawtna leh liauna leng ana bawlkhia hi. Huai ahihleh, naupang panna’ porn/ naupangte sex lam a nelhsiahna/suksiatna lim hiam video hiam ente/zangte, kum 5 sung suangkulh a tang ding leh sum Rs 10 Lakh tan liausak theih ding, chih ahi. Government in pornography kham mah leh, nang na hun, sum-le-pai leh deitelna zang a na et pen khaam theilou hi. Himahleh, child-pornography kham ahihziakin, huchibangte en a, huchibang koihkhia website himhim na va luut khak lel leh leng, mat leh liausak a omthei nahi chihna ahi.

Software engineer khat, Suresh Shukla kichi in porn doudalna ding in parental control application khat ‘Filternet’ chih minvuah in ana bawlkhia hi. Ama’n a genna ah, ‘Filternet’ tungtawn a kimukhe dan in, porn sites lakh 1 vaal internet ah omzou hi,’ chi hi. Department of Telecom, (Government of India) in October 2018 in porn website 827 kham ding in daan(Law) bawl mahleh, a phatuam di tham sukha lou hi’n leng gen hi. Huai kia hilou in, Proxy server kichi zang in porn website kikhaamte ah, lutthei thouthou uhi, chi hi. (Proxy server ichih chia’n, website khat lutna ding a server mundang a om zang chihna ahi a, computer/mobile zangtu omna mun pen a application zat tungtawn in selgu a, India pawlam dan a langsak chihna ahi) Tulel in ahihleh, VPN (Virtual Private Network) kichi hah zat uhi, proxy server sang a bitzaw ahihziakin. VPN in a zangtute omna mun/computer pen application phet lou in, a computer pumpi in selgu in gamdang dan in langsak hi. Porn website kikhamte pen tua igente tungtawn in mite ana lut zel uhi. Hiai khaamna hong suah akipat in VPN pen a Application in Indiamite mobile akipat in ki hah download mahmah chih leng muhkhiak in om hi. October, 2018 leh November, 2019 kikal in VPN App te ki download zah 405% (57 million) in kal zou hi chih leng ana mukhia uhi.

Singtangmite’n 405% lak ah bangzah percentage in ihuh zou di’n gintat huai nasa uh?

MIHING’ KHUAK LEH PORN ADDICTION:

Pathian in hon siamdaan i theihsiam deuhdeuh leh Melmapa Setan’ nnasep dan kithei siam deuhdeuh hi. Hiai theihsiamna tungtawn in Khasiangthou in mahni kivenbit theihna ding a panlaak dingdan hon sinsak a, Amah hatna toh panlaakna in, I doute tung ah vualzohna hon pia hi.

Thil chiin himhim aveel(repeat) a i vahih chiangin (bangchituk in a kaal kivang mahleh), addiction/zongsatna kichi hi.

Addict/zongsat theih thil himhimte’n i khuak omdan kikheksak uhi. A paidan ahihleh, mihing khuak a damdawi chituamtuamte (neurochemicals) nasepdaan porn et in khek danglam mahmah hi. Kipahman mu a hon kitheisak, mihing khuak a kibawlkhia neurochemical/dawmdawi ahihleh ‘dopamine’ kichi hi. Mi’n porn a et chiangun, dopamine ki khahkhezel a, huai in kipahman mu daan in mahni kipahtatna tun a, lungkimna thupitak pia a, huchi’n a veel a va hih utna ding in kithalawpna piangsak hi. A hichih ziak a Porn et zongsat baihsam ana hi dan ahi. Porn et zongsat a baihsam diak ziak ahih leh, mihing hihna khat a, pianken leh paidaan taksa-utna pen chet va sukha chiitchiat in, huai in lungkimna leh nopsakna tun ahihziak ahi. Huaiziak mah in, mihing hihna pen suanlam awlsam in mite’n zang zel uhi.

Dopamine aki khahkhiak chiangin, lungsim noplouhna beisaktu damdawi(hormones) mihing taksa in a bawlkhiakte lakah, oxytocin kichi leng ki khahkhe khawm hi. Huailou, Serotonin kichi “kipahna damdawi” leng huai lawhching hon kisa sakte lak a sep poimohtak nei ding in kikhahkhe khawm zel hi.

A chian sem na di’n, hichi’n gen leng; Nu’n nau nawi a piak chiang in, nau toh a chi uh kisukha a, huai in a Nu’ khuak ah Oxytoxin pen khahkhe zel hi. Huai damdawi(neurochemical) in Nu leh a Ta lungsimlam(emotionally) ah gaakkhawm hi. Huai a oxytoxin in asepdan in numei leh pasal in sex a neih chiang un leng sem hi. Oxytocin pen mihing kizopna ding a gakkhawmtu leh hihkiptu nna sem hi. Huai banah, sex neih/zat ahihchiang in, damdawi (neuro chemicals) khenkhat; dopamine, adrenaline, serotonin leh adangdangte kikhahkhe zel a, huaiin numei-pasal kizopna salam, lungsimlam leh khalam natawm a kipsak in kichimatsakna nna sem khia hi. Huchi di mawng a Pathian in mihingte hon bawl a, i taksa paidaan ding a lem agelsa om ahihziakin, Ama chihlouhdaan a sex akizat chiang in siatna thuuktak leh lungzinna chiteng tun hi.

Mi’n Porn a etchiangin, taksa in a bawlkhiak damdawite (neurochemicals) ki khahkhe zel ahihman in, huai lemchinna a amuh limte, mite leh mi omdaan teng toh gakkhawm a om chihna a himai hi. Setan in mihingte hon suksiatna ding a panlaak dan khat ahih leh numei-pasal i hihna uh (sexuality) pen naktak in dou hi. Taksa-utna (sexual desire), Pathianin hon piak, nu-pa kikal kia a zat leh buchinsak ding pen, Setan in a zuau zang in hihsia a, a mel khong khekdanglam a, hekkawi a, kilehlak sak a, huchi’n, huai thilhoih, Pathian in hon piak pen ahiloulou in hon zangkhial ek sak hi. Setan’ panlaakna lohching mahmah chih muhtheih in om hi.

STATISTICS (Thil phazah leh hihna thu lakkhawmna) ETNA NEIZUAL LE’NG:

USA Gampumpi a Saptuam omte suichetna (national survey) kum 5 sung a beih nung un 2017 lak in ana zousiang uhi. Huai a amuhkhiak uh ahih leh Khristian pasalte lak ah 68% in porn agige in(regular) en uh chih mukhia uh hi. Pastorte lak ah 50% in porn avangkim in en uh chih leng mukhia uhi. Lungphawnghuai asak diak uh ahih leh, pasal naupang kum 11 apat khangdawng kum 17 tan kikal te’n porn en nasa pen uh chih ana muhkhiak uh ahi. Huchi ahih leh, hiai naupang leh tuailaite hong piiching chiang ua chu, Saptuam sung porn zongsang a dim gopta mai lou ding hiam chih dotna lianpi toh kimaituah uh hi. Khaphang huailua sa uhi.

Ei Singtangmi Khristiante lak ah huchibang suichetna ngenteltakin bawl hileng, i muhkhiak ding bangbang khong a omkha diam mo? Mi vaantaang gentaak louh a, pastor leh saptuam upa, saptuam makai hi’n saptuam nnasemte pornography en percent bangzah i pha zo duam maw….? Ka dip a kua hi ka ngaihtuah mai inleng.

Pornography ahihleh naupangte leh khangdawngte lak a Setan in vanzat manphatak in nei hi. Huihpi hattak a hon nuai chiang a thilhoih tampi a mutsiat sek dan in, Setan in Porn tungtawn in naupang leh khangdawngte gentaaklouh in, piching, chingkam taktakte tampi hihsia a, kolbuhna in zang hi. Porn et zonsakna in, sa-utna phorhkhiakna ding leh sukbuchinna ding zonna in mihing’ paidaan deihhuai tampite tatlekna leh zahmohna in khekkhia hi. Hiai buaina huihpi in saptuamte poikhoihkha tak a hon nawkkha ekta ahih ziakin, zalenna leh suahtatna i muhtheihna ding ua panlaak dingdan i ngaihtuah uh poimoh petmah ta hi. Year-Plan khong in guang in, avangkim in ‘follow-up’ bang nei tou thei le hang hoih lotel ding hi. Biakinn hoih pipi lamna ding in buiding project alakh-acrore a sim in bikhiah sek mah le’ng le, biakinn building hoihtaktak sung a kikhomte, Jesu Khris’ in A sisan manphatak a atatsa biakinn taktakte, saltanna tuamtuam leh kolbut tuamtuam toh niteng a khosa khawm, suahtatna ding lamet a le nei nawnlou bangzah hiam omte damna leh suahtatna ding a pan I lakkei leh, saptuamte’n I sepding uh semkhalou kisuak ding hi. A building poimoh mah leh, a poimoh zaw mihingte; Pathian’ Temple taktak pen lamna ding leh Jesu’ Khris nungzuihna a hon panpihtu ding a project chituamtuam tungtawn a sinsakna/seminar tuamtuam ‘specific’ deuh a (pornography toh kisai gentel in), i neih zelzel uh poimoh petmah hi.

Technology in ma suan lua ahih ziakin Khovel khanghat leh neuhat mahmah a, huai in ahoihlam in hon khansak toh kiton in, aselam leh ahoihloulam in leng hon masuansak mahmah hi. Hichibang thutak toh kimaituah ihihna ah Saptuam leh khotang in leng amau hihtheihna lam chiat a kivenbitna leh doudalna lampang a kisingsa mengmeng a panlak dingdan a ngaihtuah uh kul petmah hi chih i tulel dinmun in ngaihtak in genkhia hi.

Kristian pasal, Jesu Khris iit a, A nna sem kawm lah hi, hilehleng porn sal a tang hunkhop om uh ahihziakin, kikhekna ding a panlakna poimoh petmahta chih inleng apoimoh dan genkha seng lou hi. I saptuamte sung a pasal tampi leh numei khenkhatte khuak leh ngaihtuahna porn ziaka saltanna akipat a hutkhiakna ding Bible pansan a, hiailam toh kisai a siamna neite leh theihna osmate zang a bangchi sinsakthak ding ihi di uam chih I ngaihtuah uh kul takzet hi.

Hiai thilsia pen buanna ding in, hiai toh kisai nungzuihna(discipleship) lam a sinsakna kitasam ahi chih chiang kilkel ahihman in, pan lak hunta hi. Adiak a pasal tampite ading a saltanna ahihziak in, suahtatna ding lampi leh panpihna I ngaihtuah uh hunta hi. Mihing hatna leh pilna kia zang inleng khovelmi tampite’n, porn hi’n thilchin zongsak dangte hitaleh, suahtatna ana ngah in ana mualsuahzou uh ahihman in, ei Khristiante ading in lametna tam petmah hi. Jesu Khris ah Pathian in thil tengteng hihtheihna ding a haatna hon pia ahihziak in (Philiipite 4:13), I ngaihtuahmai inleng hon hanthawn in lametna tampi mahmah hon pe khin hi. Mihing in ahithei achihtan omsek mahleh, Pathian in zaw, mihingte’n ‘ahithei’ achih tan khel ah nna sem sek hi. Amah mitsuan le’ng, Amah I gal hon zohsak ding hi. (2 Kronikul 20:15 leh 17).

PORN ADDICTION ZIAK KHENKHATTE:

1. Mihing ikibatlouh dungzui in, i lungput leh utzawng leng kibanglou hi. Pianken a, i taksa in a bawlkhiak damdawi chituamtuamte ineihdaan leh neihzah dungzui in taksa lam a phurna leh lungluutna ana neitam zodeuh chih bangleng omthei tham hi. Huchi dan a ana omkhate a ding in bang leng porn zongsak baihsamsak thei hi. Huailou in, lungsimlam a buaina (anxiety leh depression) neikhak ziakin in leng mi khenkhatte adi’n porn addict khak theih hi.

2. Hinkhua a thiltuah hoihlou khenkhatte ziakin leng lungsimlam a adiklou khat leh nih omkha thei a, huaite ziakin porn addict khak theih hi. Neulai leh khantouhna boruak leh kim-kiang a thil ana tung khenkhatte ziak in leng porn addict baisam sak thei hi: Numei-pasallam a tatsiatna (Sexual abuse) thuakkhak ziak, Numei-pasallam a thangtatna leh zatkhelna omna lak a omkhak leh khantouh khak leh huchilam thil dangdangte ziakin porn addiction omthei hi.

3. Khotaang leh lawm-le-vual lak a nawlkhin, pampaih leh simmoh a omziakin leng porn addiction omkha thei hi. I gensa mahbang a, porn in lungkimna leh nopna tun ahihziak in, hiai thil in nopsakna tomchik apiak ah pomtaak hi a kitheihna pen zonna in zatkhak theih hi. Taksa-utna pen midang panglou a eimah a kisukbuchintheih ahihziak leh ki hehnepna ding a eimah ki piak theih ahihziakin, porn ah baihlamtakin lungkimna va zon khak theih hi. Himahleh, mi’n zongsang(addict) ahihlam hong kiphawk chiang a, kingaihsiatna leh mahni kimohpaihna tun zel inchin, huchibang lungsim put lah deihlouh a paihkhiak zok theih hilou zel hi. Ahuchih chiangin, ‘a noptuam khak leh’ chi in porn mah va belh khak theih zel a, porn a va etchiang un lah nopsak sung tomchik zoh chiang in kisiamtanlouhna leh mimoh kisakna in dim zel uhi. Huai suahtatna-bei kikual (Vicious cycle) a taangkhate a dia pawtkhiak leng namai hilou thei hi. Hiai in lungsim lam kia hilou in taksalam ah leng, damtheihlouhna chituamtuam tun thei hi. Huai kia hilou in, numei-pasallam a kipolhna(sex) toh kisai a omdaan leh chiindaan hoihlou pokhe sek a, zite tung natawm ah tatsia leh kilehlak tak in pasal khenkhat khosa sek uh hi. Lungsimlam leh taksa lam buai ahihtak ziakin, khalam chu abuai disa chihna ahi. Alangtang in hinkhua naraan zang dan in lang mahleh, asunggil leh a kha ah tawltakin suahtat ut in kipek kipek hi.

4) Mihingte paidan khat ahih leh, I kiim-kiang a mi leh thil omdaante’n hon zou mahmah sek a, huaidaan a va om baihsam a, atamzote’n leng mi hihdaan leh apaidaan hi chi in va hihsukmai awlsam sek hi. Lawm-le-vual te ziak a leng porn addict baihsam ahihdan thei leng hunkhop omdi’n agintathuai hi. Lawm-le-vual porn et-haatte na thuah leh nang leng amau omdaan a na va om baihsam ding chihna ahi. Huchibang lawm pawlkha a, na utlouh pipi a leng hon sawllui ua, nang siatna ding poisalou lawm ahihlam na theih leh, na kihangsansak a na nutsiat ngam ngai ding hi. Taisan ngamlou na hih leh lah, amau khekthei ding a na kihatsak a lamdik-lamtang a pii leh hunkhe ding a na kisak kei leh, mangthai khawm ding chihna himai hi. Haksapi ahihziakin, Pathian’ panpihna lou a panlaak khauh diak ding hi.

Tulelin naupangte’n mobile, tablet leh computerte tungtawn a internet hattak zang ahihziakun, amau leh porn kikal khen/daal ding omlou himai hi. Hichibang a, ahun-aphaat lou a naupangte porn in baihsam taka asukkhak ding a aom ziakun, theihlou kal in ana sukha petmah a, a ngaihtuahna uh peibuai in hrisellou tak in koih thei hi. Porn ahihleh lem chiin thoh ahi a, a taktak gam a numei-pasal taksa kipolhna(sex) toh kibanglou/kigamla petmah ahihziakin, naupangte’n sex toh kisai a ngaihdaan leh theihsiamna a neih pen uh kawisak hi. Ahuchih chiangun ataktak leh ahidan dia agintaat pen uh porn a amuh bangbang uh sa ua, huai in akhonung a ngaihzawng khong ahon neih chiang un, angaihzawngte uh toh huai bang omdan chiin utna piangsak hi. Zi leh pasal ahon neih chiang nangawn un, nupa kikaal a salam a kizopna a kilametna pen hihbuaikha a, nupa hinkhua haksatak zat kholoh mi tanmpi om uhi.

PORN SIDE-EFFECTS KHENKHATTE:

Telsuimite’n pornography in mi sukkhak dan toh kisai, teltak in suina hahbawl in pan nasatak la toutou uhi. Aziak ahihleh, porn addiction in azangtute’ khophawkna(sensitivity) kiamsak hiai-hiai a, hun hong pai zel chiangin, amasa sang in a poimohdan uh uang semsem hi; drug addictte’n drugs azatsawt chiang ua a dose asaan deuhdeuh dan toh kibang hi. Mi akipattungin a houchikte (softcore) in kipansek mah le uh, huaisanga uangzaw leh huaisezaw (hardcore) in lutthuk pah uh hi. Huai kia hilou in, porn en a mahni leh mahni kihihphur a, mahni taksa-utna kisukbuchin (masturbate) lou chih vang mahmah ding hi.

Porn et zongsakna in pasalte adingin a zahmoh uh khauhtheihna (erectile dysfunction) pen buaisak thei hi, a zite uh a etlahtheihna uh leh a ngaihna uh leng beisak thei hi. Huai kia hilou in numei-pasal lam a thangtatna leh huhamna hanthawntu a panla suak uhi. A zite uh tung natawm ah hihluih in numei-pasallam a omdaan kilawmlou leh kilehlak khong a ompih bang leng om uhi.

Porn en zel na hihleh, A hoihlou lam ah nang hi’n na iitte sukha petmah ahi chih thei in aw? Na ngaihtuahna a paidan ahoihloulam in khek a, mi himhim toh na ki chimattheihna uh na tawm khek zou hi. Saptuam leh khotang kiaksiatna tuntu a nasatak a panmun nei na hi chihna ahi a, suahtatna ding na buaipih a na zon kul hi. Panpihna poimoh nahih poisa kenla, mi hon panpihthei ding zon poisa ken. Athuak nang mah na hih ziakin, na suahtatna ding a pan la ding leng nang mah nahi. Kuamah akhiallou ki omlou hi. Khial nahihlam kithei kawmkawm a, suahtatna ding lampi na zon kei leh suahtat haksa deuhdeuh dia, damsung daih a na guksual leh na saltanna thil suakkha thei hi.

Pornography, masturbation and illicit sex(nupa kal lou himhim a sex zatna) chihte in salam ah nopsakna tun mahleh, sawt daih ngeilou hi. Hichidan a numei-pasallam a thangtatna pen aziak omut viau sek a; taksa utna (hukna) ziak kia hizolou in, mimal a lungsimlam leh khalam a buaina neihziak ana hi ut zosek hi chih itheih leng poimoh hi. Porn pen mimal buaina a taisiatna leh haksatnate tomchik sung hon mangngilhsaktu ding a kibukna dia zat zat khak leng baihsam petmah hi. Huaiziaka porn addict hizolou a, “pom ka hi”, “ iit a om ka hi” , “phatuam leh mantaak ka hi” chih a kitheihtelnate zonna ziak ana hizo thei hi. Aziak ahih leh porn et in, midangte akipat I muhlouh; lungkimna, hihhoih kisakna leh pahtatna chihte hon tun ahih ziak ahi.

Mihinglam a nopsakna himhim ngaih poimoh in nei sek mahleng, ahoihlou lam hon tuntu in pang sek hi. Khovel theihdaan a nopsakna I delhdelhte pen a manbei ana hingei lou a, thilhoih tampi chan malam a delhsek ihilam uh iki theih leng poimoh hi.

Porn en hih khong poisalou dan a, ‘miteng in a et uh eivele’ chi in, khovel paidan leh mihing hihna suanlam bawl in tampite om mah le uh, alungsim guuktak ua zaw, moh kisakna, mimoh kisakna, mahni ki kihna te in dim ut viau uhi. Suahtatna lunggulh tampi om dia gintathuai ahihziak in, Saptuam leh khotaang makai zahtathuai, vaihawmsiam leh lemgelsiamtaktak heutute’n pan hon lak uh poimoh hi. Amaute lak mah ah leng suahtatna poimoh om tham dia gintathuai ahihziak in.

PATHIAN IN SEX A KHELHNA (Sexual Sin) A NGAIDAM HI:

1 Johan 2:16 ah, ‘Khovel a thil om tengteng, sa utnate, mit utnate, damsung thupina limte khawng Pa a kipan ahi kei a, khovel a kipan ahi zaw ngal a’ chih imu hi.

Hiai Bible chang a in khelhna seh golpi thum(3) in khen hi chih ithei hi.

Pornography in sa-utnate a suakkhe sak a, mit-utnate abuching sak chih leng ithei hi. Damsung thupina limte ahihziakin Pathian a kipat ahikei a, khovel a kipan ahih chih, i Laisiangthou in hon hilh hi. Khovel paidan ahihziakin, hiaite chiin a neikha ihih leh i paihkhiak leh tawpsan hunta hi. Khovel paidan a pailou dingte khovel paidan a ina pai khakchiang in, agu om a, ki tawl mahmah hi. Setan in Pathian toh na kizopna hihbuai theih teng a hihbuai ahi chih chiamteh kawm a’ porn addiction a kipat suahtatna ding ngaituah a pan lakthak poimoh petmah ta hi. Ahunlai leng hikha ding a, atawp chiang a ngong gawp a Pathian hon sapna zatheinawnlou khong a omkhak theihtham ahi chih thei ni (Romte 1:28).

Sex lam a khelhnate (illicit sex, porn, masturbation) himhim Pathian in ngaihdamlah neilou hi. Kisik a Amah zuante kiang ah Toupa’n A zahngaihna ziak leh hehpihna tungtawn in ngaihdamna ana pe gige hi. I hamphat daan uh i ngaihtuah chiang a kipahhuai petmah hi. Ei leh ei kikhek na ding a hihtheihna nei ngellou te kihi a, A hon khek ding Jesu Khris ahih ziakin, i hi bangbang a, ki bawlhoih masak le ngai se lou a Amah kiang zuan thei ihi chih i ki hanthawnna hi hen aw. I ut a, i kiphal nakleh, Amah ei hon khek ding a mansa ahi chih thei ni. Ama’n i khelhna a pat hon sawpsiang thei lua ahihziakin, Ama hon khek ding in kipekhe ni, huai ah damna muding ihih ziakin. (1 Johan 1:9; Sam 103:12; Ephesate 1:7; Nasepte 3:19)

I theih dia poimoh mahmah khat nawn ahih leh, Pathian in I khelhnate hon ngaidam sipsip a, i khelhna gahte natawm akipat in, a zahngaihna ziak in hon suaktasak zel hi. Ahialah, khelhna gahte I nekding phal a, lakhe sese lou a leng lem hongelsak thei ahi, chih thutak I pom leng kuul hi.

Galatiate 6:7 ah, “Khem in om kei un; Pathian zaw zekhem a mawkbawl vual ahi kei; mi’n a tuh peuh uh huaimah a at nawn ngei ding ahih ziak in” chih om hiven maw?

PORN ADDICTION BANGCHI SATTAT DING?

Kolossate 3:5

Huchi’n, noumau a leilam thil deihna omte hihlum un, kingaihnate, nitnate, utna giloute, huaihamnate; huaihamna tuh milimbiakna ahi ngal a.

Mi’n porn chiin zongsat a nei a, tawp sawm zel lah tawp khe theingeilou a puuk suk thak kha zel a hih uleh, suahtatna ding a lametna omnawnlou daan khong in leng a ngaihtuahna uh paikhial thei hi. Suaktathei lou a ki-ngaihtuah ahih ziak un, a thil chin pen uh kisiamtan leh pomdam sawm in a ngaihtuahna uh bawl uhi. Hichia a ngaihtuahna uh a bawl ziak uh ahihleh, a puaksiam na ding ua amau leh amau a ki hehnepna daan uh ahi hi. “Miteng in le ahih eivele”, “kuamah’ poi khoihkha lah hilou inga”, “kei hinkhua eivele le” chi in suanlam tuamtuam nei mahle uh leng, asunglam kawtawng a suahtat utlua a kipekpek lah suahtat di daan a lametna leh ngaapna neikhol nawnlou kisa ana hih ziak uh hi taangpi sek hi.

Porn et zongsang, lah suakta ut te’n atheih di uh ahih leh, amau kia hilou uh ahi chih ahi. 1 Korinte 10:13 ah, Mihing thuaktheih val khemna himhim na tung uah a tung ngei kei hi. Pathian zaw muanhuai a, ama’n na thuaktheih val uh khemna na tuah uh a phal kei ding; na thuak theihna ding un khemna peuhah taikhiak na lampi a bawl pah zaw ding hi, chih i Laisiangthou’ hon sinsak ahih ziakin, tai khiak na ding lampi ompen zot a, mualsuahtheih thil ahi chih phawk kawm a panlaak poimoh hi.

Zongsatna(Addiction) chi tuamtuam beisak hiam hihkiamna ding in zongsaktheih thilte apaizia leh apaidan, science toh kithuah zen in suikhiak beh zel in om toutou hi. Khuak a om, ahi tuntun a utna pen sukbei na ding in akual a hoilou tak a pai pen (vicious cycle) beisak sawm in panlakna thupitak leng paizui zel hi. Hiai mualsuahna ding a panlaaktheih dan tampi omte lak a a phatuampen ding khenkhatte:

1) Buaina nei hihlam kipom ding ahi:

Amasapen in buaina nei kahi chih na kipom phot poimoh hi. Ahuchih keileh hiai mualsuahna ding a panlaak takzet ngai ahihziakin, nang leh nang kikhem lungawi zel a omkha a, panlaak ding poimoh saklouh khaktheih hi. Mi kiang hizolou in, nang-le-nang kiang bek ah buaina nei nahihlam na kihilh utkei leh panpihna zong a kua hiamkhat kiang a na va gen di chu haksa sim pi khat hi ding hi. Na saltanna a nuamhetlou leh haksatak hisi lah ngeinasehtak a omdet khak theih ahi a, thil dangte na muhdaan natawm leng ahoihloulam a khek thei ahi hi. Huaiziakin buaina nei kahi chih pom inlan, hon panpih thei ding zon poisa ken.

2) Omdaan pilvan leh ngaihtuah detdet petmah ngai hi:

Mahni kia a om leh bangmah hihlou a om khong chiintam louh hoih mai ding hi. Aziak ahih leh, Porn et chih khong mahni hiam hihdi thupi lua neingellou a om maimai chiang a et hitangpi hiven maw? Hihdi neilou a mahni kia a om chiang khong a porn etna ding a utna/khemna hong om sek ahihziakin, dou leng haksa mahmah ding hi. Huaiziaka, hiai thil chin tawpsan ut taktakte a dia zaw, hihdi neilou a mahni a om maimai chiin chi khollou a, buaina ding leh sep ding zon poimoh hi. Huailou khat leng, hun zatdaan khek zek leng poimoh petmah ding hi; phone leh computer khong bang mahni chouh a omchiang a khoihlouh hamham sawm chih bang phatuam viau kha ding hi. Huchi leh na ki-suumna/ ki-dekna lampang ah ma hon suansak ding hi. Computer omna bang khek apoimoh leh khek a, porn etna mun ding alemhetlouh namun khong a koih mai leng phatuamkha ding hi.

3) Thil phatuam ding a kisukbuai:

Porn et ichih chiangin, addiction chi khat ahihna ah, et ahon tawpsan tuung in, taksa leh lungsim omdaan ah haksatna leh gentheihna(withdrawal symptoms) nei sek uhi. Hun haksa ahihziak in lungkimna lah hi, a phatuam ding lah hi; taksa sawi zawina leh kimawlna, innkiim-innkiang leh khotaang leh saptuam a phattuamngaihna nnasep a, kisukbuai chihte a kisukbuai manpha mahmah ding hi. Hiai withdrawal hun a panlakna lam a kivensiam a poimoh mahmah ziak ahih leh, hiai hun a pukkik baihsam a dinmun dengdel tak a om ahih tadih ziak ahi. Ki sukbuaina ding bang leng, innsung leh mahni kia a omna mun khong hizolou in, inpawlam leh kiim-kiang a mi omna deuh khong a zon hizo leh hoih ding hi.

Bible sim leh Pathian toh hun bikhiah tuam (Quiet Time) zat khong kisin a mahni kithununna hun leng suahsak theih hi. Lawmte leh sungte veh ngai leh Nnasep a huhngai om uh hia chih khong kan a phattuam ding a kisukbuai theih na ding zon poimoh ding hi.

4) Panpintu ding zon ngai poimoh in:

Na buaina leh haksatnate genkhiak zenzung ding chihna hizolou in, apoimoh leh genkhiak ding poi sa ken. Innkuanpihte hiam, lawmhoih hiam, saptuam heutute hiam, kua peuhmah hitaleh, Pathian a muanhuai ahihnaak leh, hon panpih leh Pathian’ kiang a panpihna hon ngetpih thei ding te zong in, amau kiang ah na haksatna te gen poisa ken. I khelnate kipuang khiakna ah damna om ahi chih thei kawmin, khelhna kipuang apoimoh dan in poi saklouh kisin ni (1 Johan 1:9; Paunaakte 28:13; Jakob 5:16). Huailou khat ahih leh, innkuanpihte leh lawmte toh kizopna(relationship) bawlhoih nading a panlaakna khong a hun zat a, amaute toh hun zat tam a, buaina pen amaute theihpih a buan leng apoimohna om hi. I khelh chiang un, ei mimal kia kibuai sek lou a, ei hon iittute leng buaipha a gimpha uh ahihziak in amau tung ah mohpuakna ikigotna khat a ngai a, amaute theihpihna a buan hoih lua hi. Pornography leh addiction chituamtuam mualsuah theihna dia hichi dan a, i innkuante, lawmhoihte leh Pathian a muanhuaite theihpihna a panlaakna pen phatuam mahmah hi, chih leng I theih poimoh hi. Counselling bang leng mi tamzote’n huphurhna/litna nei mah le uh, porn hi’n addiction tuamtuam suahtatna dia panlaakna phatuam mahmah ahi chih leng chiamteh ni.

Accountability partner (moh kipuaktuah pih) hiam, prayer partner (kithumpih tuah ding) ahihkei leh honpiitu (mentor) ding zon a neih poimoh mahmah ding hi. Khristian, piangthak kichi a, Jesu’ nungzuihna kichiantak a neih sawm na hihleh, tua I genteng thum dan a iki zoppih ding mi khat hiam, nih hiam, thum hiam i neih poimoh ahi chih leng iki hilh ahi. Chiamteh ni.

5) Thil sinthak ding ngai poimoh in:

Hiai addiction pen tawpsan ut taktak na hih leh, panlak takzet kuul hi. Hichilam suut te’n bang gen leh bang sinsakna anei ua chih khong kansuut poimoh hi. Mihing kibang veklou ahihziakin, pan laak dan bang leng chituam deuh zek thei a, nang mimal a dia phatuam pen ding na zon leng poimoh thei hi. Internet ah huchibang ding tampi om hi. Himahleh, internet mah a panpihna na zon leh pilvang petmah ngai ding hi. Lung kiak baihlam ahihziakin, internet tungtawn a panpihna zon sang a pornsites te mah va lutkhak theih hi. Abang hitaleh, mi tampite’n internet phatuam tak a zang in, panpihna zong ua, amau bang a suahtat utte toh bang haksatna ki kum , in ki hanthawn tuah thei uhi. Huchibang ana mualsuah khinsate toh bang kihou a, panlak dingdan kikum in mi tampite’n mualsuahna leh zohna ana mu uhi.

Khristiante adi’n bel, Pathian’ Thu suut a, hichilampang a khelhna toh kisai, Pathian’ Thu pansan a hoihlouhdan leh a khonung gu om ahihdaan theihsiamna in leng Tha guan mahmah hi. Pathian’ Thu a kipat a Tha la a mualsuahtheih ahih dan mi tampite’n testimony in nei uhi

Sex lam a khelhna tawpsanloute Pathian Kumpigam lutlou ding uhi:

Kilakna 22:15; 1 Korinthte 6:9–10; Galatiate 5:19–21; Ephesate 5:5; Hebrute 12:14

Pathian’ Thu pansan a ki hihhaat na ding in:

Ephesate 6:10-18; 2 Timothi 1:7 leh 9; Tita 2:11-12; Hebrute 12:1-3; 1 Korinthte 10:23,31; 1 Korinthte 6:12-20;1 Thessalonikate 4:3-8; 2 Timothi 2:22; Ephesate 5:3-4; Genesis 39(Joseph kihepkhiak dan).

PORN ADDICTION SATTAT A HAKSA HIA?

Porn addiction sattat haksa mah hi, hilele sattat theih ahi. Thil hithei ahi chih thei in, panlaak ding poisa kei ni.

Matthai 19:26 ah, ‘Huan, Jesu’n amau a en a, a kiang uah, Huai tuh mihing hihvual ahi kei a, Pathian a di’n bel bangkim hihtheih ahi, a chi a.’ chih i mu hi. Pathian toh ahihnak leh bangmah ahitheilou omlou chihna himai hi. Porn addiction sattat na dia tha-le-zung lut a, pan takzet leng ngai mah hi. Hilele mualsuahna ding a apoimoh daan a pan late adi’n lohchinna leng om teitei hi. Mahni kia a leng hihngailou, hon panpih ding a mansa Pathian sap phak a om gige kinei hizomah lai hi (Sam 46:1; Isai 59:1).

Numei-Pasallam a chiindaan (Sexual behavior) pen sintawm(learned) ahi a, sinlouh thak ding thil haksa petmah hi. Huaiziakin, suahtatna hiam leh doudaalna natawm a panlaakna ding in, ei Khristiante ading in bel, Pathian’ Thu mah pansan poimoh hi. Hichi leh, hichilam toh kisai a Pathian deihdaan toh kituak leh Ama bawldan leh a omzia diktak kithei ding hi. Huai chiangin Setan in hichibang omdaan hoihlou te a hon khem chiangin, panlaak dingdan ana kithei ding a, Pathian hatna muang in, Athu pansan in ki doudal in ki mualsuahzou ding hi (Ephesate 6:10-18).

Counselling(mi khat-le-khat a kihoulimna) tungtawn in leng doudaalna leh mualsuahna nna tampi sepkhiak theih hi. Trained counselorte’n hon taihilh hiam, hon thuhilh hiam lou ding ua, hon mohsa leh hon demlou ding uhi. Theihsiamna toh thuakpihna toh Pathian Khasiangthou piina in hon houlimpih ding uhi. Kihoulimna pen genkhiaklouh ding a kichepna nei ahihziak un, na thuguuk uh genkhe lou ding uhi.

Counselling pen bangziak a poimoh hiam ichih leh, mimal poimoh leh haksatna pansan a kihoulimna ahihziak in, damna ngahna suak sek hi. I haksatnate ki puakpih a, thumna toh panlaakna ahihziak ahi. Pathian in huai ding a le’ng hon thupitak hiven. Counsellor panpihna toh huai addiction hong kipat daan leh ziak ding bang sutkhiak in omsek hi. Porn addiction pen taksa lam a utna leh zulzauna ziak ana hi khollou tangpi a, thil dang daih bang ngoh ding ana omutviau sek hi. Tehkhinna’n

1) Lungsimlam natna suakthei ngaihtuahna neih (Potential mental health disorders)

2) Taksalam a damtheihlouhna neih ziak

3) Mahni leh mahni kimuh daan diklou, mi toh kikal leh sex lam toh kisai a theihdaan diklou.

4) Sex leh iitna theih khenlouh ziak

5) Sex pen khelhna sakthei, a zatkhelh pen hizaw ahihlam theihlouh ziak a

6) Porn a omte daan a ataktak a omzoudia kigintat louhna ziak a lungsim guk a nuamlou tak a ngaihtuahna bang leng neihtheih hi.

Hiai hon nesetu Pornography buan leh doudaalna dia panlak na ding a Saptuam heutu leh makaite iki hangsansak uh poimoh ta hi. Pasal toupite’n pasal toupite’ buaina mah theisiam pen ding in i ngaihtuah hi. Panlakna pankhe ding in makai pasalte mah hong kipankhe le uh, phatuamtak a thilhoih khoihkha ding nna hon semkhethei pen ding uhi. Panlakna ding a zaw agen bek I genkhiak ngam phot uh poimoh hiveh aw.

Thil thak himhim hong om chiang in, theihbeh leh theihchetna ding leh aphatuamna hiam alauhhuaidaan awlmohhuai isak chiang in ‘Awareness Campaign’ i bawl sek vele maw? Huai dan a Pornograpy pen thil thak hikei mah leh, a hoihlouhdaan leh lauhhuaidaan genna ding in pan kila ngellou ahihziakin, Awareness Campaign chihte khong saptuam leh khotang in saithei taleng chih huai mahmah hi. Naupangte a ding in bang atuam deuh dia, nungak-tangvalte a ding in tuam deuhzek dia, nupi-papite a ding in bang tuamdeuh zek nawn ding hi. Huai baan ah, Saptuam a makai leh nasemte ading in tuam deuh nawn ding hi. Khotang sang in leng, Saptuam mah mah in ma hon kai leh chih uthuai kasa mahmah hi. Aziak ahih leh pornography pen Setan vanzat ahihziakin, mihing hatna leh pilna kia sangin Pathian’ hatna leh pilna, A Thu pansan in doudaalna hangsantak in pan le’ng, phatuamtakin a doudaalna omthei ding hi. Pathian I lam ah pang ahihziakin, mi tampi hunkhia in, panpihna kipe thei ding hi. Huchi leh, saptuam leh khotaang damna leh tawldamna ding in panpihna manpha hong suak ding hi.

Huaiziakin, buaina leh hatlouhnate pen ahihna bang a pomngam a, Pathian’ deihdaan a kikhekna ding a, a poimoh bangbang a panla ngam ding a Toupa’ Kha in hon piina ana kalsuanpih ngam ding in Jesu Khris min in Toupa Pathian in haatna leh hangsanna hon pia hen. AMEN.

– Chingngaihlian Tunglut



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Suanthang
January 2, 2020 at 5:55 pm26

Huchi bang thute i cover, article a i gelh hoihlua.

Information khenkhat kipia te pen, ana chiamkha nailou te’n simkha le uh, a thuklut theihsemna ding ua info bangzah hiam om ahih man in hichibang te ah pilvan huai mahmah kahi.

There is a chance an ignorant reader might misuse some of the provided informations. It should more of address the problems and less of not how people find a way to access, afterall the concerned are the endangered ones and the addicted.

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Lunmawi
January 3, 2020 at 5:28 am26

Gelh hoih lua, hiai pornograpphy a saltang te a dia suahtakna vanzat Hong hi hen

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